Start Dating divorcee with kids

Dating divorcee with kids

Since their marriage failed, they don’t want a repeat performance, so they tend to assume the dominant role.

Though this may not always be true, most divorcees can’t handle the assumptions whether they are true or not.

They don’t want to be alone as they are not used to life alone.

Whether you’re having a nice meal, she will unconsciously say “oh my ex hated mashed potatoes, so glad you like it,” or you go shopping and she will say “my ex hated shopping.” In the beginning of your relationship you won’t notice it but gradually it becomes a pattern.

“My ex did this, my ex hates/loves that, my ex is blah blah blah.” If her ex has found happiness with someone else, it doesn’t go down well with her.

Even if she is happy with you, she will still want to find ways to infiltrate her ex’s life as it hurts her badly that another woman is successful with the ex and not her.

You are a Pawn - No divorced woman wants to live in defeat and so in order for her to move on and try to “handle” her failure, she needs you to achieve her success plan.

She will dominate you, she will ensure she’s the boss.

At this point, she commences war with the ex (whether good or bad) and she will always want to show him that she is doing much better than him and sadly you are just a pawn in her deadly game. Unlike a divorced man who shuns the idea of marriage again, for a divorced woman it’s the opposite.

So before you continue reading this article, flip over to this page, so you get the gist of why I’m writing this article.

So I went and did my research and asked various men if they would ever date a divorced woman, why or why not and here are the seven most common reasons why men should stay away from a divorced woman: Possessiveness – Most divorced women are super ridiculously possessive.

Kids: Someone who is divorced (depending on his age) most likely has kids, which means he will feel a little bit more comfortable with your kids. Nakedness in broad daylight, those annoying habits, likes clothes all over the floor, the burping and farting you never experience when you’re dating, and really the way the person lives. He’s not bashing his ex every three days, he’s not saying good-bye to his kids and then having that sad look on his face, and he doesn’t have that wounded look that says, “My wife ruined my life.” The never been married guy is fresh, untainted. Commitment: There’s commitment and then there’s commitment. He stood in front of God or a judge and a crowd of people and agreed to commit in writing. Both divorced guys and guys who have never been married can be amazing guys. In other words, I’m not saying one is better than the other.