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And you also say: When he does what I like, I tell him how much I like it. So first off, you want him to do “the little things” because they make you feel amazing when he does them. They feel amazing because he’s the type of man that has more going for himself than just trying to please you constantly.

I understand that there are a lot of bad feelings mixed up in the experience of slowly realizing that the guy isn't interested, so I want to explain why men do this, try to excuse it slightly, and offer a way of handling it.* The reasons men "fade out" are simple: Girls that have been faced with the need to dump a guy know exactly what I am talking about.

Do you think he might get tired of me or give up if I always wait for him to contact me? If you’re too afraid to take a chance with someone else, chances are that they won’t risk taking a chance with you.

My feeling is that you should talk with him if you like talking with him – if you’re doing something he doesn’t like, he will let you know one way or another.

Women sometimes complain about men "fading out" - that is, slowing and then ceasing contact after dating for a little while, or else just stopping it abruptly.

The alternative, of course, is for the guy to call the girl and tell her directly (in these words or others) "I am not interested in seeing you again.

And we don’t value what is just handed to us nearly as much.

Think about it: If he was some guy who was obsessed with trying to please you constantly in every way, you would think he was a pushover.

You would take the behavior for granted and you wouldn’t place much value on it.